# The Biggest Lover

> The Biggest Lover is a dating site for plus-size singles in the UK and US, and for people who want to date them, built around confidence, comfort and kindness. Every photo is checked by a person, and members who pass an optional ID check get a Verified badge. Joining and browsing are free.

The Biggest Lover is part of High Intent Media Inc and runs on the DatingPartners.com platform.
WhichDating, our sister review site, reviews it here: https://www.whichdating.com/reviews/the-biggest-lover/

## Key pages
- [Home](https://www.thebiggestlover.com/): Home
- [Cities](https://www.thebiggestlover.com/cities/): Cities
- [London](https://www.thebiggestlover.com/cities/london/): London
- [Birmingham](https://www.thebiggestlover.com/cities/birmingham/): Birmingham
- [Glasgow](https://www.thebiggestlover.com/cities/glasgow/): Glasgow
- [Atlanta](https://www.thebiggestlover.com/cities/atlanta/): Atlanta
- [Chicago](https://www.thebiggestlover.com/cities/chicago/): Chicago
- [Houston](https://www.thebiggestlover.com/cities/houston/): Houston
- [Guides](https://www.thebiggestlover.com/guides/): Guides
- [Dating confidence at any size](https://www.thebiggestlover.com/guides/dating-confidence-at-any-size/): Practical ways to feel confident dating as a plus-size person, from how you talk to yourself to where you meet people.
- [How to plan comfortable dates](https://www.thebiggestlover.com/guides/planning-comfortable-dates/): How to choose date spots with good seating, space and easy access, so you can relax and enjoy the company.
- [When fast flattery turns into a request for money](https://www.thebiggestlover.com/guides/flattery-and-money-requests/): How to spot someone who showers you with compliments, rushes things and then asks for money, and what to do next.
- [Members](https://www.thebiggestlover.com/members/): Members
- [Claire](https://www.thebiggestlover.com/members/claire-london/): Claire
- [Sam](https://www.thebiggestlover.com/members/sam-birmingham/): Sam
- [Jo](https://www.thebiggestlover.com/members/jo-glasgow/): Jo
- [Steve](https://www.thebiggestlover.com/members/steve-atlanta/): Steve
- [Lisa](https://www.thebiggestlover.com/members/lisa-chicago/): Lisa
- [Martin](https://www.thebiggestlover.com/members/martin-houston/): Martin
- [Sophie](https://www.thebiggestlover.com/members/sophie-london/): Sophie
- [Dan](https://www.thebiggestlover.com/members/dan-birmingham/): Dan
- [Where to meet](https://www.thebiggestlover.com/where-to-meet/): Where to meet
- [What’s on](https://www.thebiggestlover.com/whats-on/): What’s on
- [How we verify](https://www.thebiggestlover.com/how-we-verify/): How we verify
- [Dating safely](https://www.thebiggestlover.com/safety/): Dating safely
- [Questions](https://www.thebiggestlover.com/faq/): Questions
- [About](https://www.thebiggestlover.com/about/): About

## Facts
- Is it free? Joining, making a profile and browsing are free. You need a membership to read and reply to messages, and you see the options before you pay.
- How do I know people are real? Every photo is checked by a person. Members who pass an ID check carry a Verified badge, so you can see who has been checked.
- Is there a dating site for plus-size people? Yes, this is one. The Biggest Lover is for plus-size singles and the people who want to date them, so everyone here is on the same page from the start.
- What do I do if someone is rude about my size or only interested in my body? Don't reply. Block them and report the message. Reports are reviewed by a person. You deserve someone who is interested in all of you.
- How do I deal with comments about my weight on a date? You don't have to explain or laugh it off. A calm "I'd rather not talk about that" is enough, and you are free to leave if they carry on.
- Where can plus-size singles meet in real life? Beginner-friendly choirs, inclusive dance classes, plus-size fashion events and volunteering are all good places to start.