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Questions about The Biggest Lover

In shortThe Biggest Lover is a dating site for plus-size singles in the UK and US, and for people who want to date them, built around confidence, comfort and kindness. Every photo is checked by a person, and members who pass an optional ID check get a Verified badge. Joining and browsing are free.

Is it free?

Joining, making a profile and browsing are free. You need a membership to read and reply to messages, and you see the options before you pay.

How do I know people are real?

Every photo is checked by a person. Members who pass an ID check carry a Verified badge, so you can see who has been checked.

Is there a dating site for plus-size people?

Yes, this is one. The Biggest Lover is for plus-size singles and the people who want to date them, so everyone here is on the same page from the start.

What do I do if someone is rude about my size or only interested in my body?

Don't reply. Block them and report the message. Reports are reviewed by a person. You deserve someone who is interested in all of you.

How do I deal with comments about my weight on a date?

You don't have to explain or laugh it off. A calm "I'd rather not talk about that" is enough, and you are free to leave if they carry on.

Where can plus-size singles meet in real life?

Beginner-friendly choirs, inclusive dance classes, plus-size fashion events and volunteering are all good places to start.

Meet curvy and big singles, and people who want to date them, with date ideas and guides built around comfort and confidence.

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